The effects of abuse and neglect can be very harmful and may last a lifetime. Every child deserves to feel safe and have their needs met. It is crucial that everyone keeps an eye out for the children in our community. Find out what to do if you are worried about a child, or if you are affected by family violence. There is also a helpful directory of organisations which offer information and support.
The effects of abuse and neglect can be very harmful and may last a lifetime. All tamariki deserve to feel safe and have their needs met. It is crucial that everyone keeps an eye out for the children in our community.
It is natural for tamariki to express their sexuality and their interest in the differences between the genders through their behaviour. How they do this depends on their stage of development. It is important to understand the difference between normal sexual behaviour and behaviour outside the expected range in each age group.
Some parents worry that a sore red bottom may be caused by sexual abuse. Although that is a possibility, it is not the usual reason and there are lots of other things that are much more likely causes of a sore red bottom.
It is normal for babies to cry, and it's normal for caregivers to get frustrated. Have a plan for what you will do if your pēpi keeps crying and you become upset or frustrated. It is never ever OK to shake a baby. Make sure that all the people who care for your pēpi know this. Never leave your pēpi alone with anyone that you think might lose control.
Many families in Aotearoa are affected by family violence. Help is available. If you or your tamariki are affected by family violence, call the Family Violence Information Line on 0800 456 450, or Shine's national helpline on 0508 74 46 33.