This page is about sleep in babies. It's part of a whole section on normal sleep. [1]
Put pēpi in their own bed for every sleep (such as a cot, bassinet, wahakura or Pēpi-Pod®). Have your baby's bed in the same room as you for at least the first 6 months.
It is never safe to put pēpi to sleep in an adult bed, on a couch or on a chair.
Take a look at the KidsHealth safe sleep page [2] to learn more about making the sleeping environment safe for pēpi.
You can find more information on the Raising Children website on sharing a room with your baby. [3]
From around 3 months, pēpi will start to develop day and night sleep patterns. As pēpi grows, they may sleep for less time, the typical amounts of sleep at each age are:
As babies grow and develop their sleep cycles change. Pēpi over 3 months will have a sleep cycle that consists of:
As babies get older, they will often sleep longer at night. Many babies will still wake in the night and will need to be settled back to sleep. They will often have 2 to 3 naps during the day that last roughly between 30 minutes and 2 hours.
From around 3 months pēpi will start to develop night and day sleep patterns. You can encourage this by emphasising the difference between day and night. At night keep the room darker and use dim light when attending to pēpi. Keep play and stimulation for the daytime.
From about 6 months, pēpi will develop new abilities that may impact how they sleep. Settling difficulties can occur at the same time pēpi starts to crawl. Babies can develop separation anxiety where they get upset if you aren't around. This can make them wake up more overnight. Some babies will keep themselves awake if there is lots of noise and light around or something they find interesting.
The Raising Children website has great tips and ideas on how to help settle your baby to sleep [6].
In this short video by Raising Children, parents talk about encouraging baby to sleep. It includes looking for sleep cues, finding out what helps babies sleep, and being consistent with sleep and settling techniques. You might need to experiment to find out what works for your baby.
A bedtime routine involves doing similar activities each night before pēpi goes to sleep. From around 6 months of age, having a bedtime routine can help pēpi to fall asleep more easily. A positive bedtime routine can help calm pēpi ready for sleep. This may include things such as:
It is useful to try and keep your baby's bedtime and routine similar to help pēpi feel ready for sleep.
Putting babies to bed while they are still awake but drowsy can help them settle at the beginning of the night. It may also make it easier to settle them back to sleep if they wake in the night. If pēpi falls asleep in their cot, they will associate sleep with being in their cot instead of associating sleep with being rocked or fed.
The first few months of life with a newborn can be challenging. If you are struggling to settle pēpi or feel like they're not sleeping well, it is important to reach out for support.
Call PlunketLine 24 hours a day, 7 days a week on 0800 933 922.
PlunketLine is available 24 hours a day for advice and support for you, your baby and your whānau. Calls are free from cell phones. You do not need to be registered with Plunket to use this service.
Call PlunketLine [7] on 0800 933 922 for parenting advice.
Call Healthline 24 hours a day, 7 days a week on 0800 611 116.
Healthline provides free advice to parents and whānau if they're worried pēpi may be unwell. They can help find services nearby such as an afterhours medical centre if you need to see a doctor.
If you are worried that pēpi is unwell or showing signs of distress or pain, see your GP so they can check pēpi. You can also talk to your GP if you are needing extra support with adjusting to life with pēpi.
Take a look at the Tākai website for more information about sleep in the early months [8].
This page last reviewed 04 April 2023.
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[1] https://kidshealth.org.nz/tags/normal-sleep
[2] https://kidshealth.org.nz/safe-sleep-your-baby
[3] https://raisingchildren.net.au/babies/sleep/where-your-baby-sleeps/sharing-a-room-with-baby
[4] https://raisingchildren.net.au/babies/sleep/understanding-sleep/sleep-2-12-months
[5] https://www.plunket.org.nz/child-development/sleep/new-clinical-content-page/sleep-4-12-months/
[6] https://raisingchildren.net.au/babies/sleep/settling-routines/helping-babies-sleep-settle-3-6-months
[7] https://www.plunket.org.nz/plunket/what-we-offer/plunketline/
[8] https://www.takai.nz/find-resources/articles/sleep-in-the-early-months/
[9] https://kidshealth.org.nz/tags/sleeping-sound
[10] https://kidshealth.org.nz/contact?from=http%3A%2F%2Fkidshealth.org.nz%2Fprint%2F2777%3Flanguage%3Den